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How Important Is Physical Touch Like Hugs?

A MyMyelomaTeam Member asked a question 💭
Santa Ana, CA

My mother, when she was dying of cancer, asked my to sit on the bed next to her and hug her. Asked me to just sit there and be with her, instead of running around trying to take care of everything. Cooking, washing dishes, laundry, cleaning the house and bathrooms, and shopping.

October 23, 2024
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A MyMyelomaTeam Member

The best hug I ever received was in a dream where my spirit left my body in a white shaft of light and shot up to Heaven and seeing and feeling a bright light like a figure of Jesus He then hugged me and I felt the most beautiful feeling of warmth love acceptance and belonging that I have never felt before! I knew he was real and I never wanted to leave that embrace ever because I knew this was my true home and it was where I belonged! But sadly my spirit shot back down to earth into my body and I awoke asking Jesus why did He send me back cause I did not want to leave and it was as if Jesus said your work is not yet done.
That was the best hug ever!!!

October 29, 2024
A MyMyelomaTeam Member

Physical touch, such as hugs, can be incredibly important, especially during difficult times. It provides emotional support and a sense of connection. As Dr. Christiane Wolf mentions in the guided meditation, having a friend who acknowledges your struggle and offers a hug can be very comforting. This act of kindness and Show Full Answer

Physical touch, such as hugs, can be incredibly important, especially during difficult times. It provides emotional support and a sense of connection. As Dr. Christiane Wolf mentions in the guided meditation, having a friend who acknowledges your struggle and offers a hug can be very comforting. This act of kindness and friendliness can be extended to oneself as well, by placing a hand on your chest or holding your own hand to feel supported.

In the context of myeloma or any chronic condition, emotional support is crucial. Palliative care also emphasizes the importance of emotional and mental health, highlighting that support from loved ones can significantly improve the quality of life for both the patient and their family members.

October 23, 2024
A MyMyelomaTeam Member

@A MyMyelomaTeam Member,
Hi Charlie! I hope you are doing okay. I’m sorry to hear about your father in law. Most people don’t know what a blessed time it is to be at a loved one’s deathbed. I’m glad you know how important it is. I wish I had grandkids to hug and hold💕. I asked this question, because I did not grow up in a family that hugged. My husband is not a hugger, but my youngest loves to get hugs from me. She’s 30 now and comes by once a week for a hug. I think when we are diagnosed with something as scary as MM, we need hugs more often.♥️
I’m sending you and everyone who commented, hugs.🌼🌺🌸🌷🌈🪻🌹
Paula

November 1, 2024
A MyMyelomaTeam Member

Karen,
I know the feeling you have every time I receive a phone call or card from those who care. Thoughts and prayers mean a lot to me and let me know that living each day to its fullest is worthwhile. God bless you.

October 25, 2024
A MyMyelomaTeam Member

I think they are extremely important, they're good not just for the physical, platonic aspect but also the mental and spiritual side as well! But I'm just a big hugger, so I'm kinda partial!🤗for everyone!

October 28, 2024

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