Connect with others who understand.

Sign up Log in
Resources
About MyMyelomaTeam
Powered By
Real members of MyMyelomaTeam have posted questions and answers that support our community guidelines, and should not be taken as medical advice. Looking for the latest medically reviewed content by doctors and experts? Visit our resource section.

Help Again!

A MyMyelomaTeam Member asked a question 💭
Quitman, TX

My husband was just diagnosed with MM and it's in his bones, stage 2. Please tell me what all the CD numbers you are talking about mean? The doctor is rushing him into treatment and I do not feel good about this. What should we be asking about the CD numbers? How can I find out how high his natural killer cells are? Please, any advice is needed. Please tell me where to start.

October 7
View reactions
A MyMyelomaTeam Member

I'm sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis. Here are some important steps and questions to consider when discussing his multiple myeloma (MM) with his doctor:

Questions to Ask Your Oncologist
1. Location and Stage of Myeloma:
- Where in my body is the multiple myeloma located?
- How advanced is the multiple Show Full Answer

I'm sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis. Here are some important steps and questions to consider when discussing his multiple myeloma (MM) with his doctor:

Questions to Ask Your Oncologist:
1. Location and Stage of Myeloma:
- Where in my body is the multiple myeloma located?
- How advanced is the multiple myeloma, and what does that mean?

2. Treatment Decisions:
- How quickly do we need to make a decision about treatment?
- What will happen if I delay treatment?
- What will happen if I do nothing?

3. Treatment Options:
- Which treatment options are available to me now?
- Which treatment or combination of treatments do you recommend, and why?
- What is the goal of this treatment? Achieving remission? Maintaining remission? Slowing the spread of myeloma? Improving symptoms and feeling better?

4. Effectiveness and Side Effects:
- How effective is this treatment in cases like mine?
- What are the common side effects?
- Are there any potentially severe side effects, and how common are they?
- Could this treatment raise my risk of other health problems later on, years from now?

5. Monitoring and Follow-Up:
- How will I know if my treatment is working?
- How often will I need checkups or follow-up appointments?

Additional Considerations:
- Natural Killer Cells and CD Numbers:
- Ask your doctor to explain the significance of CD numbers in your husband's specific case.
- Inquire about tests to measure his natural killer cells and other relevant immune markers.

Support and Resources:
- Bring a Family Member:
- If you’re worried or overwhelmed, bring a family member to help you during appointments.
- Community Support:
- Consider joining a support network like MyMyelomaTeam, where you can connect with others who understand life with myeloma.

Shared Decision-Making:
- Identify Priorities:
- Discuss your main goals with your doctor, whether it's achieving remission, avoiding side effects, or maintaining your current lifestyle as much as possible during treatment.

Practical Help:
- Cost and Logistics:
- Are there any programs to help with the cost of treatment?
- If travel is required, what assistance is available?

Conclusion:
Starting with these questions can help you gather the information needed to make informed decisions about your husband's treatment. Always communicate your concerns and priorities to your healthcare team to ensure the best possible care.

October 7
A MyMyelomaTeam Member

My Oncologist at UCLA says CD’s don’t matter. @A MyMyelomaTeam Member was given DarzFasPro.

October 7

Related content

View All

Since Being Prescribed Heavier Doses Of Dex, Weight Gain Is A Problem. Does Anyone Have Tips To Help With This Situation?

A MyMyelomaTeam Member asked a question 💭
Mesa, AZ

Has Anyone Had Or Are Planning On Getting The RSV Vaccine?

A MyMyelomaTeam Member asked a question 💭
Pembine, WI

Is It Flu/COVID Vaccine Season Again?

A MyMyelomaTeam Member asked a question 💭
Hollis AK
Continue with Facebook
Continue with Google
By joining, you accept our Terms of Use, and acknowledge our collection, sharing, and use of your data in accordance with our Health Data Policy and Privacy policies.Your privacy is our priority Lock Icon
Already a Member? Log in